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If You Linger, You Die!

I was reading my Bible today, and the story of Lot in Sodom struck me hard all over again. If you aren’t familiar with the entire story, I’d encourage you to read Genesis 18-19 and get the idea of what is going on.

Lot saw these two angels coming, strangers to the land, and immediately bowed down and invited them into his home to stay.  While hospitality was a big deal in this culture, Lot was not simply trying to be kind to the strangers.  He understood what the men of Sodom were capable of doing.  He was being protective.  He knew the ways of his city and he was ashamed and fearful.

Notice that Lot wanted to get the men in his house as quickly as he could and then get them out before anyone else in the city woke up.  In an age of hospitality, you didn’t simply invite people to stay the night, but you offered to let them stay well into the day.  Before they ever accepted his offer, as politely as he could, let them know they would be leaving early as if he knew where they were going and that they were in a hurry to get there.  To the point that when the angels declined his offer, saying they’d just as well stay in the square and set up camp.  “He pressed them strongly; so they turned aside to him and entered his house. And he made them a feast and baked unleavened bread, and they ate,” (Genesis 19.3).

He pressed them strongly.  The mental image that you should have is that of Lot nearly tackling the men as they turned to go into the square.  He lunged at them.  Perhaps picture in your head Lot grabbing the men roughly around the chest and then smoothing out there robes, saying, “What’s the hurry?  I insist.  I won’t take no for an answer.”  Lot would do anything to keep the men from seeing the sin in which he lived.  So he made them a feast and baked unleavened bread.  Once again, hospitality but fast hospitality.  A feast, but unleavened bread. There was no time for bread to rise.  He needed them to go to sleep.  It’s like the mentality of Christmas for little children.  The sooner you go to bed the sooner Christmas comes.  The sooner they went to sleep the sooner morning would come and he could send them on their way.

Can you see yourself in story?  I can.  God, or perhaps one of his representatives enters into my sinful life, and all I can do is try and hide the life in which I know I live.  Just hoping that I can get through this moment without my sin catching up with me.  Everything is fine.  It’s all good.  Great to see you; stay for a while, a little while.  Pretending that nothing is going on outside the doors of your house.

But as Numbers 32.23 says, “be sure your sin will find you out.” I am not saying that Lot was anything like the men of Sodom.  However, as we will see, he was aversely affected by them.  “But before they lay down, the men of the city, the men of Sodom, both young and old, all the people to the last man, surrounded the house. And they called to Lot, “Where are the men who came to you tonight? Bring them out to us, that we may know them,” (Genesis 19:4-5).

Can you imagine the look of horror and shame on his face as he had to confront those men at his door?  Confronting sin is never fun.  It’s horrifying and it is shaming.  But sin is not something that will ever be hidden from God.  It is not something that one can pretend isn’t happening.  That sin is pounding at your door.  You hear it.  God hears it.  There’s no denying that it’s happening.  The question is, will you confront it?

Lot, mustered up his strength and confronted the men.

Lot went out to the men at the entrance, shut the door after him, and said, “I beg you, my brothers, do not act so wickedly. Behold, I have two daughters who have not known any man. Let me bring them out to you, and do to them as you please. Only do nothing to these men, for they have come under the shelter of my roof,” (Gen 19.6-8).

Here is why I say he was aversely affected by the people of Sodom.  Rather than giving up the two men, he was willing to give up two of his daughters.  Let this be a lesson for us all.  Sin will not allow half-hearted, half-measured efforts to be satisfied.  Sin is not to be trifled with.  It is not to be bargained with.  We don’t compromise with sin.  John Owen once wrote:

Let no man think to kill sin with few, easy, or gentle strokes. He who hath once smitten a serpent, if he follow not on his blow until it be slain, may repent that ever he began the quarrel. And so he who undertakes to deal with sin, and pursues it not constantly to the death.

“But they said, ‘Stand back!’ And they said, ‘This fellow came to sojourn, and he has become the judge! Now we will deal worse with you than with them.” Then they pressed hard against the man Lot, and drew near to break the door down’,” (Genesis 19.9).  Half-measured, half-hearted, compromising trifles are never enough when dealing with sin.  It’s kill or be killed.  As John Owen said, “Be killing sin or it will be killing you.”  The phrase, “pressed hard” in verse nine is the same word that was used when Lot urged the angels strongly to come to his home.  I like the NLT’s way of translating, the “lunged.”

At this point, the angels pull their host back in, strike the men with blindness, and tell Lot Sodom will be destroyed so he had better get his family out of there.  Lot went to his future sons-in-law, but they thought he was joking and did nothing.  Which leads us to verse 15 once again.  “As morning dawned, the angels urged Lot, saying, ‘Up! Take your wife and your two daughters who are here, lest you be swept away in the punishment of the city.’”  This is the second warning for Lot.  Punishment is eminent.  There is no time to waste.

Oh that we would understand that we must flee from wickedness immediately!  The promise of judgment is assured.  It is coming.  John Piper did a series of blogs that he calls A.N.T.H.E.M.

A – Avoid all possible temptation.

N – (this is the one I’m focused on) No. Say no.  Piper says we have about 5 seconds to say no before the temptation gets lodged in our minds and hearts.

T – Turn your eyes toward Christ.

H – Hold on to a promise from God

E – Enjoy Jesus more than sinful pleasure

M – Move away from idleness and find something to do.

The warning is true.  Judgment and punishment is coming and it could come at any moment.  We don’t believe it and so we do nothing about it. We are betting our very lives that this is not the moment.  But we are assured that as every second goes by, we are one second closer, and we don’t know when.  Say no immediately.  Don’t hesitate.  Don’t linger. Don’t be like Lot. We see in the very next verse these horrifying, awful, but so relatable words, “But he lingered,” (Genesis 19.16).  I think the whole of chapter 19 revolves around those three words.  But he lingered.

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Lot’s Wife & Abraham

After preaching my sermon yesterday, my wife pointed out to me how Lot desired to go to Zoar rather than flee into the mountains as told.  They were allowed, and had been commanded not to look back.  It was only after getting to this little city, that Lot’s wife turned back and was turned into a pillar of salt.  Katie’s point: had they escaped into the hills as first instructed she may never have looked back, but because of Lot’s “easy way out” idea, she did and was destroyed.  I think she has a rather good point.  It’s one that we all need to heed.  Our sins and our “roads of least resistance” plans can harm others.  We do not live unto ourselves.  We are always, by actions and by words, affecting others.

That being said… have you ever noticed that Abraham looked at the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah?  Lot and his family were not allowed, but Abraham was given no instruction to turn away.  One could only speculate, and so we can’t make this into dogma, but here are my thoughts anyway:

  1. Lot and his family were “too close” to the situation.  They had experienced Sodom first-hand.  There was a part of them that must have loved Sodom.  Remember that Peter stated that Lot was tormented in his righteous soul.  He was tortured upon seeing and hearing the people of Sodom.  He lingered after being warned twice of impending doom.  They were simply too close.
  2. Abraham was separated from Sodom.  He was allowed to look upon the cities’ destruction as an objective observer.  He understood God’s righteousness and the people’s wickedness.  He had not been influenced by what he’d seen and heard.
  3. For Lot and his family to look back would mean that they were still tied to the city.  Rather than be grateful for their rescue, turning back would show that they longed to be with the people.  They did not see the destruction of a wicked city, but the burning of their home and all they’d known.

Again, I think this is a lesson for us all.  There are sins in our lives that we escape from, but we must never even give a hint of looking back to those sins.  Let them stay dead.  Let them be destroyed.  If one has lived “porn-free” for five or even twenty-five years, he must not think that one viewing of a movie or a quick peek on the internet will not do any harm.  Let it stay dead.  If one has conquered his lying tongue so that he speaks the truth in love, he must not turn back for a moment even if it is “a little white lie.”

Abraham saw these things being destroyed and could see it for what it was.  There was no part, not even a hint, that desired something other than what God was doing.  He was content with God’s destruction, but longed for his family to be safe.  Sadly, it would seem that not all whom Abraham thought believed actually did.  But some were safe, and Sodom was not.  Lot and his family had been so engrained in Sodom that some part of their hearts would remember the place fondly.  For that reason, they could not look back.

Jesus said, “No one who puts his hand to the plow and looks back is fit for the kingdom of God,” (Luke 9:62, ESV).  Once we begin our journey, we must not look back and long for the things of our former kingdom.  God has rescued us from the domain of darkness and transferred us to the kingdom of his beloved Son; there is no looking back.

Watch yesterday’s sermon “Linger” (Genesis 19:15-16) for greater understanding of sin and God’s mercy.